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June 2009 
What's Your Romance-ability?
Posted on Feb 3rd, 2008
by 
Melissa
Melissa
These days I'm pondering not only the myriad of ways we keep love out of our lives, but specifically romance, whether or not we're in a "so called" romantic relationship. I say "so called" because we all know that often we're in romantic relationships less to create romance than we are to hide from loneliness, even if we started off with the best of intentions.
I am coming to believe that it's our combination fears of "not being good enough" and "loneliness" that are the double whammy of keeping romance at bay because it keeps us scrambling to settle for less. As long as we're busy, and not alone, we can't be still and figure out what we truly want to feel like in a romantic relationship and make it our true intention, nor can we allow the universe to fill us with its own mystery and magic.
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i agree.
i used to run from one relationship to another.
when i became still and found the goddess within me, everything was easier, because deep down inside, we have all the answers within ourselves. we just create the human ego problems that we churn or get caught up in…
there is no right or wrong, no purpose accept to love and learn. in or out of a relationship, happy or not happy…it all comes down to our choice to be or not to be something…
ah choice…
i choose to be safe in myself. i choose love. i choose loving myself. the rest natually follows…friends, lovers, family, peace.
i admire your commitment to your writing! thanks for helping the higher consciousness raise thru love and honest thought!
jess